According to this book of Dr. Alan Loy McGinnis, some people are magnets for success. They know how to "catch on the wing." Their only secret is confidence; certainty about their personal worth.
"Can you gain more self-confidence? Can you change? "Yes," says Dr. McGinnis. "You can gain a healthy self-confidence."
I am very much aware that I have a
very low self-esteem. Oh! Erase that... One of the things Dr. McGinnis
mentioned in this book is to never look down yourself and never ever
think that you have such problem in yourself.
Dr. McGinnis also illustrated in
this book to let go of the unwanted memories of the past and to forget
and forgive. Some of us have issues with our parents right? Dr. McGinnis
also said to forgive our parents and just look at the bright side. We
may have commit something wrong or argue with our parents, they will
just hope for our own sake, ALWAYS! We should love our parents a
thousand times than they love us. Yes, they get annoying sometimes, but
always remember that we are much more annoying than them but they never
gave up on us. It is a big factor in gaining self-confidence.
Upon
reading this book, I feel like I've met a lot of people. Amazing
people! People who got out of their shell and they succeeded in the
careers they chose to have. Mostly, they are Dr. McGinnis' patients who
were so down and aren't confident about themselves yet they managed to
look at the bright side and transform themselves into who they are
today. Successful in their chosen fields!
